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The 25th chapter of the Gospel of Matthew tells us to pay attention to the hungry, the thirsty, the naked, the stranger, the sick, and the oppressed, as whatever we do for those around us who are in need is what we do for Christ. 

The Matthew 25 Initiative of the Presbyterian Church (USA) calls on the church to be a people of action, connecting congregational life to issues of poverty and racial injustice. 

At the Kirk of Kildaire, we aim to answer this call to action right in our own neighborhood, through ministries and projects that connect food insecurity, affordable housing, and educational support. 

DISCOVER the KIRK

The Kirk of Kildaire is a congregation of the Presbyterian Church (USA), which means we practice our faith in the Reformed Christian tradition.

The Sacraments

Baptism & Communion

Presbyterians believe that Baptism is a sign that we are a part of the community of believers throughout the world and through all the ages. When joining the Presbyterian church, individuals who have not been baptized will receive the sacrament during the worship service when new members are presented to the congregation.

Those who are being baptized upon profession of faith declare their intent to participate actively and responsibly in the church’s worship and mission.

When Christian parents present their infant children for Baptism, they consecrate themselves to the task of bringing up their child in the faith of the church. The congregation promises to surround their child with their love and concern in Christ.

The pastor introduces the Sacrament of Baptism with Scripture followed by prayer. Each person will be presented by their Christian or given name and water from the baptismal font will be sprinkled on their head saying, “I baptize you in the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.” 

Communion is served either by intinction (dipping the bread in the cup) or a single serving of the bread and cup, if preferred. Gluten- and allergen-free bread is available. The cup is non-alcoholic grape juice. 

The ushers will direct those wishing to receive Communion, by row. Those receiving the sacraments by intinction will be given a piece of bread by the server who will offer words of affirmation such as “The bread of life given for you.” You will then dip the bread into the cup and receive an affirmation such as “The blood of Christ, freely given to you.”

Those who prefer not to receive Communion by intinction may proceed to the server stationed in the front center of the aisle. The server will hand the single serving bread and cup to you.

If you would prefer to stay seated, please let an usher know and they will have the Communion elements brought to you in your pew.

We Welcome All

“Therefore, welcome one another as Christ welcomes you to the Glory of God.”  -Romans 15:1

We believe that Jesus loves you, no asterisks. We believe that the Kingdom of God is open to all who want a place in it, and we strive to be the same kind of community. We affirm that you were created in the image of God, that God’s abundant grace is for you, and that your full humanity is affirmed in Christ.

We also believe that the community Christ intended is not homogenous. We are committed to welcoming people of all genders, sexualities, races, abilities, and political persuasions. Sometimes, these commitments are in tension.  Sometimes, we disagree. Sometimes we have hard conversations. And, often, we fall short. But through God’s grace, we are committed to trying again.

We hope you’ll join us in our effort to be a community on earth that gives a glimpse of God’s Kingdom so all might know they are beloved.

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The Kirk of Kildaire is a Christ-centered family of faith serving the greater Cary area since 1979. Our name comes from the Church of Scotland, where churches are called kirks, and from our location on Kildaire Farm Road. Our aim is to live and know God’s love for one another, for our neighbors, and for our world. 

Read more about our history here.

A MATTHEW 25 CONGREGATION

“Whensoever you did it for the least of these, you did it for me.” 

The Matthew 25 Initiative inspires and equips our congregation to live out Jesus’ call to care for the “least of these.” Focused on addressing hunger, homelessness, poverty, and racism, this initiative fosters meaningful service and outreach. Together, we work to reflect Christ’s love by transforming lives and communities.

A STEPHEN MINISTRY CONGREGATION

“Christ caring for people through people.”

Stephen Ministry equips congregation members to provide high-quality, confidential, one-on-one care to individuals facing life challenges such as grief, illness, or other personal crises. Trained Stephen Ministers walk alongside those in need, offering support, prayer, and compassionate listening. This Christ-centered ministry helps foster hope and healing within our church and community.